The first store I can recall going to is Mikie’s Corner Store. Mikie was my first brand ambassador and I was four years old. His place offered me everything I could imagine and a whole lot more than I could afford. When I was seven, we moved from Parkdale to High Park and I got to know Pete’s Sunny Bar. Pete’s store was right across from Annette Street Public School and he held me and four other generations of students captive until he died a few years ago. Now his daughter does the same. In high school, there was Mr. Yonka’s Variety Store. I bought my first pack of cigarettes there. Summer jobs and University took me downtown to a whole new world called Yonge Street.
This is what Yonge St. looked like in the 70's - and how it looks now.


All those people, lights, sights and sounds drew me away from the corner stores that I had grown up with and exposed me to a whole new world of products and services; most of which I had never imagined. My old brand loyalties were severed as I explored the shops and bars of Yonge Street by night and worked or attended school a few streets over by day. I was 16.
As a little boy my loyalty was to a Mikie’s Corner Store and the brands my parents taught me that I could trust.
Psychology played a big part in my shopping destinations and purchase decisions.
As a teenager I sought out stores that allowed me to experiment with new people, products and services that my parents did NOT approve of. Discretion became an important purchase variable. As a young (and then mature) advertising professional, I remained on Yonge Street for another 20 years working for agencies like Foster, MacLaren, Baker Lovick and Ogilvy & Mather. The street changed and my needs changed. In my 30s and 40s I knew what I wanted, when I wanted it and how I wanted it. In turn, I found a handful of stores that served me well . . . until I stopped working down-town.
Psychology continues to play a big part in my shopping destination and purchase decisions.
Today the world wide web works the very same way. On any given day there are some people who are using the web for the first time, and some who are closing down their web browser for the last time.
We need to think of the online experience as an extension of the off-line experience – and vice versa – because cognitive dissonance comes into play any time, any where. When you offer customers on or offline experience that is not congruent, brand loyalty gets eroded.
Whether you’re building your online brand or offline brand presence, you need to get to know all of your customers: the young and the old, the new ones and the regulars, to ensure that you understand what they are buying, how they are using what they buy, and how their needs are evolving relative to the world at large. Their product and service utility insights will help you ensure that your brand is mentally ‘visible’: that I can find it, stay with it for life, or come home to it after I’ve gone through my exploration phase.
Aspirin™ is the first brand my mother introduced me to and it is still a trusted brand in my home. I use it the same way she did.
Duct tape is different. My dad and I used it to make heating and return-air ducts air-tight, and as a general utility tape.
A few years ago my son made me a duct tape kilt. He changed how I look at that product, where and how I now (mentally) position it.
The two safest places for a brand are in the user’s heart and mind.
Streets and web addresses change.
But, like any good friend, you’ll track down those you love.